Monday, June 29, 2009

Boys. Part Deux[Bittersweet]

I was thinking of another topic to write bout my ongoing series bout boys. Not men but boys. I couldn't really think of anything. Then today it hit me. I'm going to write about a thing that plagues boys. Both genders are responsible but it seems that boys don't seem to find the fucking antidote as quickly pardon my chester french. Selfishness.

SELFISHNESS

Oh this has plagued us since the beginning of time. I fucking hate it. I'm a selfish person in general but not to the point where it hurts others and rewards me.

Example.

A guy starts dating a girl. He likes her she's okay everything is cool. She doesn't excite him though. He meets another girl she's wild and crazy and has that thing he is looking for. She's kinda unreliable though and a little unpredictable.

So now you would think the decision is coming. He'll make a choice right?
WRONG
He wants the best of both worlds.
This ain't Hannah Montana and even that bish had to make a decision.

Now his selfishness is going to hurt both parties. He wants both so his selfishness is inabling to make a decision. He doesn't make a decision and sooner or later a decision is made for him.
Most of the times leaving him empty handed.

Example 2.

Man and woman been together for years they have a child or two.The relationship is going south and he starts to pursue other women. They break up. She is left with the children cause he wants a free life to get the woman of his dreams. He feels like the children are fine with their mother. His selfishness has hurt the children and not the woman in this situation. Instead of balancing the two.

This affects boys more than girls but we are all able to catch this nasty attitude.

Now next time you feel like you got it good and it may hurt others in the situation just don't.

Man the Fuck Up and instead of embracing Selfishness embrace Responsibility.


That type of behavior is for kids.


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